Community College Month Q & A: Damaris Fernandez ‘24

As a single mother, Damaris Fernandez went back to school to set an example for her children. While studying business administration, she works as an admissions and recruiting specialist in the Educational Opportunity Fund (EOF) department at Middlesex College.

Q: How has being involved with EOF made an impact on your journey thus far?

A: My time at Middlesex College has been truly transformative, and my involvement with the Educational Opportunity Fund (EOF) has played a pivotal role in my journey. As a first-generation college student and a single mother, I faced numerous challenges in pursuing my academic dreams. Through EOF, I received academic support, financial assistance, and mentorship, which helped me navigate the college experience with confidence.

Q: How do you balance motherhood with being a full-time student? What strategies have you found most effective in juggling these responsibilities?

A: Being a full-time student and balancing motherhood, especially with a child with special needs, can be extremely challenging and requires effective time management. I prioritize tasks, create a schedule, and communicate it openly with family, friends, and professors. I utilize campus resources, like academic support programs, and adapt to changing circumstances. Self-care is crucial, so I make time for activities that recharge me. I remind myself that it’s okay to ask for help and seek support from fellow students, mentors, or professionals. By prioritizing, communicating, and seeking help when needed, I successfully juggle my responsibilities and achieve my goals.

Q: Is there a professor or staff member who has helped you navigate college life and academics?

A: The EOF and Middlesex College communities have been instrumental in my success. The EOF program has provided a supportive network of peers, mentors, and counselors who understand the unique challenges I face as a first-generation college student. Meanwhile, the broader Middlesex College community, including students, professors, advisors, and administrative personnel, have been consistently supportive, approachable, and dedicated to my academic and personal growth.

Q: Who inspires you?

A: As a single mom, I’ve learned to draw inspiration from my own resilience and determination. Despite the challenges, I’ve found strength in my ability to juggle multiple roles, advocate for my family and pursue my education. I’m inspired by the example I’m setting for my children, showing them that hard work, perseverance, and self-care can overcome any obstacle. By pushing myself to grow and succeed, I’m creating a brighter future for us all. In essence, I inspire myself to keep striving, to keep pushing, and to keep shining, not just for myself, but for my family and the life we’re building together.

Q: Do you have any advice for current students?

A: I would say: embrace your journey, imperfections and all. Don’t be too hard on yourself. You’re doing your best, and that’s something to celebrate. Seek out resources, support, and mentorship. You don’t have to do it alone. Prioritize self-care and make time for joy, even in the midst of challenges. Remember that every accomplishment, no matter how small, is a step closer to your goals. And most importantly, believe in yourself: your resilience, creativity, and determination will carry you.